Exploring Queer Mysticism

An Introduction to Queer Mysticism

Mysticism is often described as a profound, transformative union or absorption into a deity, a sense of oneness with the creative force of the universe, God, or the absolute. This state of being is often described as something that transcends ordinary perception, bringing the mystic into direct, experiential contact with the divine. Unlike traditional forms of religious practice that are structured around myth, dogma, doctrine, theology, or sacrament, mysticism emphasizes personal, inner experiences of the sacred.

The word mysticism itself denotes an experiential spirituality that prioritizes personal encounters with the divine over externally imposed beliefs or rituals. This form of spirituality allows individuals to experience their identity as “expressions of divine love” directly, fostering a deep sense of connection and unity with what is most valuable to the individual.

In this sense, mysticism can be seen as a universal aspect of human spirituality, one that crosses the boundaries of specific religious traditions. It invites individuals to move beyond the surface level of religious practice into the depths of their own spiritual experiences, where the distinctions between different paths may blur and converge in the shared pursuit of divine union.

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Mysticism and Religion 

Religions of the world can be likened to spokes on a wheel, where each spoke represents the unique religious traditions with different dogmas, doctrines, rituals, myths, etc. On the periphery of the wheel, these spokes appear far apart, highlighting the distinct and often divergent teachings, practices, and beliefs that characterize each religious tradition. For instance, the rituals, theological concepts, and sacred texts of Hinduism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, and other religions can seem vastly different from one another, creating a sense of separation and uniqueness for each faith.

However, as one goes deeper into the experiential aspect of their religious tradition, they move closer to the center of the wheel. These experiential aspects of faith begin to lose their clear distinction and the spokes begin to converge. This convergence symbolizes the shared mystical experiences across different religions, where distinctions blur and commonalities emerge. Mystics from various traditions often describe similar spiritual phenomena such as nonduality, unity, and a profound connection with the divine.

For example, the Christian mystic Meister Eckhart spoke of experiencing God as an inner light and presence, transcending traditional religious boundaries. Similarly, the Sufi mystic Rumi wrote about losing oneself in divine love, emphasizing the dissolution of the self in the presence of the absolute. Buddhist mystics often describe states of enlightenment and oneness that transcend the ego and connect with a universal consciousness.

These shared mystical experiences suggest that despite the apparent differences in religious practices and beliefs, there is a common thread of experiential spirituality that unites them. Mysticism, therefore, acts as a bridge, bringing together the diverse expressions of faith into a cohesive understanding of the divine. As individuals delve deeper into their spiritual journeys, they often find that the core of their experiences aligns with those of mystics from other traditions, revealing a universal truth that transcends religious boundaries. This unity at the heart of mysticism demonstrates the interconnectedness of all spiritual paths and the shared human quest for understanding themselves and their connection with something greater than themselves.

Queer Mysticism and Mind-Body-Spirit Integration

Mysticism inherently promotes the integration of all facets of one’s being—mind, body, and spirit—without making distinctions between what is considered spiritual and what is not. This holistic approach recognizes that every aspect of a person’s life contributes to their spiritual journey. Mysticism invites individuals to embrace all parts of themselves, seeing them as integral to their path to divine union. This perspective fosters a sense of wholeness and harmony within, allowing the individual to experience the divine in all areas of life.

Ego Death

Ego death is a significant concept in mysticism, referring to the loss of one’s sense of subjective self-identity. This transformative experience involves transcending the ego, the part of the mind that creates the sense of a separate self, often dominated by personal desires and fears. Mystics describe this state as a profound dissolution of the individual ego, leading to a sense of unity with the divine or the absolute.

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However, experiencing ego death does not imply the loss of one’s authentic uniqueness. Instead, it involves shedding the constructed self—the identity shaped by societal expectations, personal ambitions, and ego-driven desires. In place of the ego, what emerges is a deeper, more authentic sense of self that is intrinsically connected to the universal and divine. This authentic self retains its uniqueness, but it is no longer confined by the narrow boundaries of egoic identity. Instead, it operates from a place of genuine connection, love, and understanding of the oneness of all existence. Ego death often facilitates more creativity and uniqueness, since it allows the mystic to deeply embrace their unique authentic selves as expressions of divine love.

Spiritual Experiences & Queer Mysticism

In the context of queer mysticism, this integration is particularly significant. Queerness is not seen as separate from or contrary to one’s spiritual path but as an essential part of it. The experiences, identities, and expressions of queerness enrich and deepen one’s spiritual understanding and connection. Embracing queerness within the framework of mysticism means recognizing it as a sacred and integral aspect of one’s being, contributing to the unique and authentic expression of divine love in the world.

Queer Mystical Experiences

Queer mystical experiences are profound expressions of divine love, joy, and serenity. Queer love, with its diverse and unique manifestations, is a powerful and transformative experience that can connect individuals deeply with the divine. Similarly, queer joy, which often arises from living authentically and celebrating one’s true self, is a sacred and mystical experience. Queer serenity, achieved through self-acceptance and inner peace, reflects a harmonious alignment with the divine.

These experiences exemplify the mystical journey of integrating and embracing one’s whole self as a path to experiencing and expressing divine love.

Mysticism demonstrates that all aspects of life are spiritual and therefore mystical. This understanding transforms everyday experiences into opportunities for spiritual growth and connection. For queer individuals, this means recognizing that their identity, relationships, and expressions are all vital components of their spiritual journey.

By viewing all aspects of life through a mystical lens, individuals can see the sacredness in their daily experiences and interactions. This perspective empowers queer individuals to embrace their identities fully, knowing that their queerness is a beautiful and essential part of their spiritual path. It highlights that every moment, relationship, and experience is an expression of divine love, contributing to the ongoing journey of spiritual discovery and union with the divine.

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Queer Saints, Sages, and Mystics

Throughout history, numerous queer saints, sages, and mystics have made significant contributions to spiritual traditions and the LGBTQIA+ community. Their lives and teachings continue to inspire and affirm queer spiritual experiences.

  • Rumi and Shams: The Persian poet Rumi and his mentor Shams of Tabriz shared a profound spiritual connection often viewed through a romantic lens. Their relationship inspired some of the most spiritually rich poetry, filled with themes of divine love and unity, highlighting how queerness can enrich spiritual experiences.
  • Sergius and Bacchus: Roman soldiers and Christian martyrs, Sergius and Bacchus are symbols of love and resilience within the queer community. Their deep bond and mutual devotion are often seen as examples of same-sex love and are venerated as patron saints of same-sex couples.
  • Saint Perpetua and Saint Felicity: These North African martyrs shared a profound bond and are often regarded as patron saints of same-sex couples. Their story of faith and friendship, culminating in their martyrdom, exemplifies the spiritual power of queer relationships.
  • Saint Sebastian: Widely regarded as a patron saint in queer spaces, Saint Sebastian is celebrated for his homoerotic depictions in art. His portrayal by Renaissance artists has made him an icon for gay men, affirming and celebrating queer experiences through the intersection of art and spirituality.
  • Saint Aelred of Rievaulx: A medieval abbot, Aelred wrote extensively on spiritual friendship and same-sex love. His writings provide insight into the spiritual and emotional dimensions of queer relationships, highlighting the sanctity and depth of loving relationships between men.
  • Other Figures in Queer Spirituality: Saint Symeon the New Theologian, Saint Bernard of Clairvaux, Wilgefortis, John of the Cross, Marinos the Monk, and Saints Polyeuctus and Nearchus are just a few of the many other figures who represent queer spirituality in mystical and faith spaces.

There is a rich history of queer representation in mystical and faith spaces, with many more figures contributing to this vibrant and inclusive spiritual tradition.

The impact of these queer saints, sages, and mystics on spiritual traditions and the LTBTQ+ community is profound. They demonstrate that queer experiences and relationships can be deeply spiritual, contributing to a richer and more inclusive understanding of mysticism. Their stories offer inspiration and affirmation to queer individuals seeking to explore their spirituality, showing that queerness and mysticism are not only compatible but can enhance each other.

These figures challenge conventional narratives within religious traditions, advocating for a broader and more inclusive view of spirituality. By embracing their teachings and legacies, we can foster a more accepting and affirming spiritual environment that celebrates the diverse expressions of divine love found in queer experiences. Their lives remind us that spirituality is not confined to traditional norms but is a vibrant, dynamic journey that includes all aspects of human experience, including queerness.

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Folx with Faith: Spaces to Explore

Creating environments where individuals can explore their spirituality safely and authentically is at the heart of Folx with Faith’s mission. Inclusive spiritual spaces allow queer individuals to engage deeply with their spiritual practices without fear of judgment or exclusion. These spaces honor the unique spiritual journeys of queer individuals, providing a sanctuary where all aspects of their identities are embraced and celebrated.

Such environments are essential for fostering genuine spiritual growth and healing. In a world where many queer people have experienced rejection or trauma from traditional religious institutions, having a community that affirms their identity can be profoundly healing. These inclusive spaces offer a supportive network where individuals can share their experiences, find solidarity, and engage in collective spiritual practices that resonate with their true selves. By prioritizing inclusivity, we create a foundation for spiritual exploration that is both expansive and compassionate, allowing everyone to experience the full expressions of divine love.

At Folx with Faith, we are committed to building and maintaining these safe and inclusive spaces for spiritual exploration. We encourage readers to actively engage with our community and take advantage of the resources we offer.

Whether you are looking to join an existing group or start your own, Folx with Faith provides numerous opportunities to connect with others on a similar spiritual journey. Our community events, workshops, and discussion groups are designed to facilitate meaningful connections and spiritual growth. By participating, you can explore queer spirituality in a supportive environment, deepen your understanding of mystical experiences, and contribute to a vibrant, inclusive spiritual community.

To get involved, visit our website and sign up for our newsletter to stay informed about upcoming events and opportunities. You can also reach out to us to learn more about starting a local group in your area. Together, we can create a network of safe spaces where everyone can explore their spirituality authentically and fully, experiencing the transformative power of divine love in their lives. 

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References & Resources for Queer Mysticism: Embracing Divine Love and Unity

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30 LGBTQ+ Religious Saints | The Advocate

This article is about queer representation within religious and queer spaces. It focuses on saints within the Christian religion.
30 LGBTQ+ Saints
 

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LGBTQ Saints, Queer Saints | QSpirit

This is a phenomenal resource that provides an extensive list of queer saints and sages throughout the ages. This resource is robust and provides links to articles based on categories such as Christian Saints, queer representation in the Christian and Hebrew Scriptures, Theologians, Writers, and Church Leaders, Queer Activists, Pioneers in the LGBTQ+ Community, Deities, and more.

 

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15 Homosexual Saints and Their Remarkable Stories | Symbol Sage

This resource provides a list of well known Christian saints that have represented queer identity or had an impact on conversations about LGBTQIA+ and spirituality throughout history.

 

Saints & Their Stories

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“Queering Contemplation: Finding Queerness in the Roots and Future of Contemplative Spirituality” by Cassidy Hall and Tantor

Cassidy Hall, an LGBTQIA+ Christian contemplative scholar and podcast host, reimagines the contemplative tradition by queering it, allowing for a deeper connection to marginalized and oppressed voices. By embracing queerness in her contemplative practice, Hall shows how this approach can open spiritual spaces for welcome and engage our spiritual lives with infinite possibility and authenticity.

Queering Contemplation | Better World Books
Queering Contemplation | Allstora
Queering Contemplation | Amazon

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A Guide to Gender Identity Terms | NPR

A guide by Laurel Wamsley with a variety of gender identity terms.
Gender Identity Terms

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Folx with Faith’s Celebrate Your Divine Identity Retreat

Join LGBTQIA+ folx from all over the nation for a three-day immersive weekend on the beautiful Unity Village campus. Take part in inspiring music, interactive keynotes, wisdom workshops, sacred ceremony, transformational art, meditation, and of course—a drag show! You will leave with a renewed sense of belonging and tools to navigate your spiritual journey free from religious trauma.
This is a safe place to cultivate a deeper, more empowered awareness of our divine identity.
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How We Feel App

The “How We Feel” app was created to help people gain emotional intelligence. It prompts the user for daily check-ins, it offers educational resources, as well as scientifically proven emotional regulation methods. You can also add your closest friends to assist in creating an emotional support network.
Gaining a better understanding of our emotions can play a powerful role in how we show up in our communities. This app can also help you keep track of how the weather, your location, the people you’re with, and what you are doing can affect your emotions.
How We Feel Website
“How We Feel” in the Apple App Store
“How We Feel” App in the Google Play Store

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